{"product_id":"b0hfsxr535","title":"I Don't Want to Get Old Like This: The Autonomy Plan for Your Aging Parents and Your Own Future","description":"\u003cp\u003eThere is a phase of late life most families have no name for, and no plan for.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThe person you love is still here. But more and more of their life is being decided by someone else: where they live, what their days look like, which risks they're allowed to take.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eSometimes the change is gradual. The driving becomes questionable. The stairs become dangerous. A parent starts needing help they used to refuse. Sometimes it happens in a week: a fall, a hospital discharge, a facility decision no one is ready to make.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eHow do you keep your parent safe without taking away the life that's still theirs? And what can you do now to protect your own future?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eI Don't Want to Get Old Like This  calls this the  lifespan-only phase : the years when a person is still alive, but has lost much of the ability to direct their own life. Drawing on his experience watching his father's decline, Brian Sellin shows which decisions families can make ahead of time, and which choices are still within reach when decline has already begun.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThis isn't a book about living forever. It's about keeping the years you have as fully yours as possible.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eAcross 14 chapters and a five-part Autonomy Toolkit, you'll learn how to:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eSee the warning signs sooner.  Use the five-part autonomy framework to identify where independence is becoming vulnerable, before a single event forces every other decision. Have the conversations you've been avoiding.  Use seven guided questions to learn where your parent wants to live, what care they would accept, what matters most to them, and who should speak for them. Know which documents matter.  Use the Document Checklist to spot gaps in decision-making authority and prepare better questions for legal and medical professionals. Understand the real cost of care.  Use the Care Runway Worksheet to examine possible costs, available resources, and the limits of Medicare and Medicaid. Make more informed home and facility choices.  Use the Home \u0026amp; Facility Readiness Worksheet to assess hazards, compare care settings, and ask better questions before committing. Put the pieces into a plan.  The Autonomy Plan Snapshot brings priorities, people, decisions, and next steps into one place the family can revisit as circumstances change.\u003cbr\u003e\nStart wherever you are.  The book shows you which chapters and tools to use if you're planning ahead, noticing the first signs of decline, facing a crisis now, or caring for someone already dependent on others.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWritten from the perspective of a son who knows what it feels like to sit in a parking lot after visiting his father, this book looks in two directions: toward the parent you want to help today, and toward the life you still have time to prepare for yourself.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eYou cannot control every part of aging. But you can make more of the important decisions before a crisis makes them for you.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"ANT","offers":[{"title":"Ebook","offer_id":67889872765173,"sku":"YSL32945","price":5.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0817\/8774\/8597\/files\/71P31xrSmGL._SY1500.jpg?v=1793336412","url":"https:\/\/www.newbooks.store\/products\/b0hfsxr535","provider":"NewBooks","version":"1.0","type":"link"}